Unisex Fashion – Why Does It Work for Women but Not for Men?

So, we all know by now, in recent years, women have long been free from the confines of their wardrobe. A masculine blazer? On me. Oversized button-down shirt? Perfection. And we’re all for it! But what happens when the situation is reversed? Why is it that when a man decides to wear a skirt, the world suddenly stops for a moment? Let’s talk about it for a sec—why is it so normal and cool for women to wear men’s clothing, yet men in feminine pieces still raise eyebrows?

Why is it okay for us, women, to wear men's clothing?

The issue isn't just about fashion itself, but what it represents. Men’s clothing has always been linked to power, independence, and even rebellion. When women began adopting men’s attire, it was much more than a trend—it was a statement. A statement of breaking glass ceilings, of freedom, of “I do what I want.” And it worked. Because when we wear these items, we’re not just part of the style, we’re also exuding strength, confidence, and a look that’s a little rugged, a little masculine—but totally us.

And what about men?

Here, the story is a little less glamorous. A man in a dress? Even today, despite the big changes in fashion, this look doesn’t exactly get compliments on the street. People see it as something unusual, and instead of focusing on the fashion aspect, they immediately tie it to gender stereotypes, as if a man wearing a dress “must” be sending a particular message. It’s as if society is telling them—“A skirt? Not for you, buddy.”

"I think the moment you feel more comfortable in your own skin is when you’re freer to break the rules." — Marc Jacobs

Real-life examples—Harry Styles and Damiano David

Take, for example, Harry Styles, who appeared on the cover of Vogue wearing a dress and shook the world. Despite the support from his fans, there were quite a few critical voices, claiming it wasn’t appropriate or “manly enough.” And Damiano David, lead singer of Måneskin, who frequently wears feminine items on stage, consistently sparks extreme reactions—some admire his bold style, while others harshly criticize him.

Why does this happen?

Well, it’s no real secret. Clothing is one of the ways we express ourselves, and particularly our gender. And although we’ve come a long way, men’s clothing on women is seen as “powerful” and even sophisticated, whereas a man adopting feminine items is often viewed as “out of the ordinary.” He’s brave, he’s bold—but he’s also exposing himself to stereotypes and maybe even criticism. In short, there’s still a way to go.

But like everything in fashion, it’s only a matter of time before things change. Maybe tomorrow, we’ll see more men in skirts, and it’ll be the most casual thing ever.

Now it's your turn! What do you think? Would you wear men's clothing in your everyday life? And how would you react if you saw a man in a dress? Share your thoughts in the comments!